Weekly Photo Challenge: Color

9 Apr

This week’s Daily Post Photo Challenge is a fun one: Color! This theme can be interpreted in so many ways, but I decided to showcase a little something from my day job:

Cake Pops!

Cake Pops!

I can’t wait to check out everyone else’s entries. :)

Meditation: New Age Hooey or the Key to Happiness?

24 Mar

Dearest Readers:

I’m afraid I’m having an Eat, Pray, Love moment.

At the BeachThough–if I’m being completely honest, I’m not exactly sure if it’s a *proper* Eat, Pray, Love moment or just a fit of madness. I must confess that I haven’t actually read the book (please try to contain yourselves), and while I’ve seen the film, you can never trust a Julia Roberts movie. So.

(For the curious–I have since obtained the book, since, you know, everyone and their mother has a copy. I stole it from my mom. Naturally. I’m currently about a fifth of the way in and waiting for the eating to begin.)

Despite my spotty knowledge of the novel itself, I do know, however, that at some point Julia Roberts Elizabeth Gilbert decides to do some meditating. Well, as luck would have it, I’ve recently started meditating myself.

Now, if you’re like me, you probably have some ideas in your head about what meditation entails. Some of those ideas are probably right and some are probably wrong. But I’m not here to give you a lesson on the subject. For one thing, if you wanted to read about the hows and whys of meditation, then there are plenty of resources out there. Secondly, I’m definitely not an expert. If anything, I have no idea what the heck I’m doing. (Though for those interested, I’m including links to the resources I’ve found particularly helpful at the end of this post.)

I do, however, want to share a couple of things I’ve learned so far:

1. There is no “one size fits all” brand of meditation. There are dozens of forms and techniques and approaches.For some, meditation is a spiritual experience. For some, it’s a means of managing anxiety and stress. For still others, it’s simply an excuse to have a few calm, peaceful moments to themselves. Personally, I’m trying to adopt a more “mindful” approach to life (that’s a whole other post by itself), so I’m focusing on the Vipassana style of meditation.

2. The other thing I’ve discovered? This sh*t is hard. Check out any meditation forum and it’s filled with posts like, “Am I doing this right?!?!” and “My mind keeps wandering when I’m trying to meditate!” and so on and so on. Not all styles of meditation require “clearing” the mind, but generally during meditation you want to focus on the present, not worry about the past or future (which is what most of us tend to do 24/7). You don’t realize how loud and busy and chaotic your brain is until you attempt to focus on nothing but your breathing for ten minutes straight.

I don’t remember exactly what inspired me to start researching meditation a couple of weeks ago. I’ve been doing a lot of general reading on happiness and mindfulness, and so many people seemed to advocate meditation that I decided to give it a try (not to mention that it seemed like a perfect project for the New Adventures Challenge). After a little trial and error, I’ve decided to commit myself to meditating for ten minutes every morning.  I’m currently using a very basic approach and focusing on my breathing, but once I feel comfortable with that I’m going to try out few other techniques as well.

So you may be wondering–what’s the point of all this? Supposedly, the effects of regular meditation (especially in conjunction with general mindfulness) can be seen throughout your life. You’re happier, less moody, less sensitive, less stressed. You find it easier to “go with the flow.” You’re more empathetic. Heck, I could use a little help in all of those areas.

I’m willing to give it a try for a while. Maybe it will completely change my outlook on life, or maybe it’ll merely be a few quiet, peaceful moments at the beginning of my day. Only time will tell. In the meantime, I’m diving in headfirst, committing fully to practice and continued research. Maybe I’ll eventually follow in Elizabeth Gilbert’s footsteps and head over to India for an in-depth meditation retreat (I have been struggling with a particularly strong case of wanderlust these past few weeks…) In the meantime, I might check out the meditation center here in town.

What about you guys? Have you ever tried meditating? Any tips?

I’ve found the following resources particularly informative or inspiring:
  • Believe it or not, the subreddits /r/meditation (especially the FAQ section) and /r/mindfulness are great discussion forums (and an awesome starting place). They actually pointed me in the direction of several other valuable resources, too.
  • How-to-meditate.org is a great general site on meditation.
  • After seeing several recommendations for it, I’m currently reading Mindfulness in Plain English by Ven. Henepola Gunaratana and finding it very inspirational.

X Marks the Writing Spot

19 Mar

[Quick note: Yes, I know it was only yesterday that I said I'd be taking a break from this blog for a little while, but what can I say? I'm addicted.]

Many writers, I suspect, dream of the perfect “writing spot.” I know I have–though admittedly the vision changes depending on my mood. Some days I imagine a gorgeous mahogany desk with plenty of room to spread out my notebooks and scrap paper (and all of those fun little office supplies I seem to collect), while other times it’s a shady spot under tree (ideally one without any knobby roots to dig into my butt), while still other times it’s a bustling coffee shop where I’m surrounded by people and energy and potential inspiration.

I’ve spoken on here before of my attempts to mix up the places I write, and on the whole it’s been a very successful experiment for me.  Here’s quick rundown of what I’ve tried so far:

The Standing Desk

Standing desks are pretty trendy these days, and–fortunately–they’re pretty easy to recreate at home.

Standing Desk

I definitely find that working from a standing position improves my focus and productivity. I’ve also been thinking a lot about my health and fitness level recently (as both could use some improvement), and usually it’s the small, consistent efforts–like standing instead of sitting whenever possible–that make a huge difference down the line.

Pros: Better for my body. Better focus and productivity than usual.

Cons: More physically draining. On days when I’m tired, it’s harder to motivate myself to use it.

Various Spots Around The House

Sometimes I don’t have the time/money/energy to venture far from home, but I still want to change things up a little. I’ll write in my bed, in the kitchen, on the landing, on The World’s Most Uncomfortable Couch–wherever I feel like that day. Sometimes just moving to a different room seems to boost my writing mojo. Sometimes I feel like I need to sit at a table to keep focused, while other times I prefer to work from the floor. I find that I’m less productive if I allow myself to get too comfortable (like when I’m sitting on my bed, for example), but on the other hand, I can only manage so much time on The World’s Most Uncomfortable Couch. I think the key, for me, is to pay attention to my productivity and focus and be willing to move spots mid-writing session if needed.

Pros: Lots of flexibility. Easy to find another spot if I’m having issues with noise, comfort level, focus, etc.

Cons: It’s easier to get distracted when I’m at home. It’s also easier to get too comfortable and decide to watch TV/nap/etc instead of writing. I find that I’m significantly less productive when I’m at home than when I’m out of the house.

The Coffee Shop

Caffeine! Sugar!

Caffeine! Sugar!

I find that I tend to get more done if I don’t allow myself to take a break between the Day Job and my evening writing session. So instead of, say, going straight home from work, showering, changing, eating dinner (basically everything I do to “wind down” for the day) and then trying to write, I sometimes push myself to stop somewhere on the commute home and squeeze in some wordage. Coffee shops are my usual go-to spot because a) chugging a little caffeine before a writing session never seems to hurt (though I stick to tea myself), and b) I find the “white noise” of the establishment very conducive to general productivity. Plus, there’s always the potential that you’ll overhear some juicy conversation that might provide a little inspiration for your work.

Pros: I tend to have more energy when I’m outside of the house. Also: caffeine! White noise! Potential inspiration!

Cons: Can get expensive if you’re going often. Sometimes the noise is a little too much (or you’ve chosen a table next to a screaming baby or something). Depending on where you live and what time you visit the shop, it might also be difficult to find a seat.

The Library

The less-expensive (er, free), quieter alternative to the coffee shop. Plus, you’re surrounded by books! Inspiration and research are right at your fingertips. And it may just be the libraries where I live, but I’ve found that the internet can be really spotty when I’m on my own computer, which means less potential for distraction. I’ve been meeting up with writing buddy about once a week at a local library, and I’ve managed to knock out 1,000 words every time.

Pros: Outside of the house. Free. Quiet. BOOKS EVERYWHERE.

Cons: Sometimes it’s a little too quiet for my tastes (I work better with white noise). Also, libraries tend to close fairly early, so I can’t just camp out there all evening.

The Writing Retreat

Ah, the retreat. If I had the opportunity, I’d take regular excursions to secluded places and devote entire days to writing. As it is, I can only afford the occasional mini-break, but in my (admittedly limited) experience with writing retreats, I’d call them a HIGHLY successful way to get things done. On my trip last week (to the mountains of Blue Ridge, Georgia), I managed to crank out more than 8,000 words and finish my draft.

The view from the cabin.

The view from the cabin.

Plus, if you take the retreat with other writers, you have a built-in brainstorming/encouragement team.

Writing circle!

Writing circle!

(And just in case you’re wondering about the raccoon in the last shot, that’s Maurice, the taxidermied wonder. He was part of the cabin’s decor.)

Some people call me Maurice...

Some people call me Maurice…

Pros: LOTS of writing time. You’re away from your normal day-to-day distractions. If you choose to go with writing friends, you can keep each other on track.

Cons: This isn’t a cheap option, that’s for sure. And sometimes you can’t just take off for a weekend.

The Takeaway From All This?

I don’t really have a “perfect” writing spot and I don’t think I ever will. For some people, routine is key to productivity: sitting in the same spot, drinking the same tea, putting on the same song gets them in the right “headspace” to write. For me, though, changing when and how I write has an energizing effect, and my productivity tends to soar.

Where do you guys normally write? Do you have a regular spot? Do you prefer to switch things up? Any tips for productivity or focus?

Quick Update…

18 Mar

I might be scarce around here for the next week or so. I’ve been doing a little soul searching over the last couple of weeks, and while I suspect I’ll be talking about everything on this blog in the near future, right now I need to take a little time to myself and sort some things out.  (For any concerned: yes, I’m alright. I’m just finally dealing with some things that have been going on for a while. If anything, I’m on the up-swing.)

But I also have another, far more exciting reason for taking a mini-break from this blog:

I finished the first draft of my novel!!!!!!

It happened on the writing retreat, actually (I’m pretty impressed with myself for getting some real, substantial writing done while I was away). I’m doing some quick-and-dirty edits before I send it off to beta-readers, and I think I’ll be much more productive if I don’t try to split my creative time between this blog and the manuscript.

In the meantime, I want to apologize for not responding to any comments over the last week or two. I’m not ignoring them, and I will respond to each and every one in the near future.

Thanks for being patient with me, you guys. I’ll be back soon, I promise!

Meanwhile…

10 Mar

No Photo Inspiration this week. Why? Because I’m sitting here:

Retreat View

I’m on a mini writing retreat, doing all sorts of responsible writerly things (and a number of irresponsible things, too). I’ll be back to my normal posting schedule when I return.

In the meantime, I wish everyone a wonderful, creative week. :)

Weekly Photo Challenge: Lost in the Details

7 Mar

A nature hike on an overcast day at the end of winter (or the South’s pathetic excuse for the season) was the perfect place to continue my education in the intricacies of the DSLR camera. It was also the perfect answer to the Daily Post’s Photo Challenge, whose theme this week was “Lost in the Details.”

Lost in the DetailsThis photo is a bit of an obvious response to the prompt, but I couldn’t resist. I love the texture on display here, as well as the brightness of the fungi against the grays and browns of the tree. I’m not a master photographer yet, but I’m getting there, one detail at a time.

Friday Fictioneers: The Skeptic

6 Mar

It’s time for Friday Fictioneers! I’ve missed the last couple of weeks, but I’m back with a vengeance (or, you know, at least mounds and mounds of enthusiasm). Want to join in the fun? Head over to Rochelle’s blog to learn all about it.

Here’s this week’s photo:

Copyright – Jennifer Pendergast (http://elmowrites.wordpress.com/)

And here’s my story! I decided to change things up a little this week and try a dialogue-heavy piece. I struggled a lot with the word limit this time around, but I managed to get it down to 102 words in the end.

******

The Skeptic

“Do you hear that?” Meg says. “That wailing?”

I listen. After all, I let Meg drag me to this “haunted” lighthouse. I might as well play along.

“I hear something,” I admit. Probably the wind.

“It’s her, the White Widow!” Meg says. She peers up into the darkness.  ”Look!”

“It’s just a shadow,” I say, following her finger. “Not…”

Wait. Is that a face, looking down at us? 

“A shadow,” I repeat.

Meg doesn’t answer. When I turn, I don’t see her.

“Meg?”

No answer.

“Meg!”

This time there is an answer, but it’s not Meg.

It’s definitely not the wind, either.

 ******

Want to read more of this week’s fiction? Check out the link below:

Below and Above: St. Paul’s Cathedral [Travel Gallery]

3 Mar

No Photo Inspiration post this week. Instead, I thought I’d try something a little different–a gallery with a single primary subject. In this case, St. Paul’s Cathedral in London.

I think this gallery illustrates a point that I’d like to translate into my writing: sometimes it pays to look at a subject (or character or object or story) from all angles because it helps you notice things you wouldn’t have seen otherwise.

The first set of photos below were taken from street level, while the second set were taken from the very top of the dome (worth the climb, if you have the chance. In my opinion it’s the best view of London).

(Also, while I’m thinking about it–have you guys seen this 360 degree panoramic photo of London? AMAZING.)

But anyway. The photos:

FROM BELOW

St. Pauls from Below - 1

St. Pauls from Below - 2

St. Paul's from Below - 3

St. Paul's from Below - 4

St. Paul's from Below - 5

FROM ABOVE

St. Paul's from Above - 1

St. Paul's from Above - 2

St. Paul's from Above - 3

St. Paul's from Above - 4

St. Paul's from Above - 5

Has looking at something from a new angle ever helped your writing?

(Meanwhile, good luck with all your creative projects this week!)

New Adventures Round-Up: Week 2

1 Mar

Well, guys, I made it through my second week of the New Adventures Challenge. This week’s batch of new things sparked a revelation for me: I believe I’ll get even more out of this project if I set specific long-term goals–or at least take turns honing in on specific areas of my life. For example: one week I might decide to focus on food–trying new dishes, recipes, restaurants, etc.–and another week I might focus on exploring new places in my hometown.

This idea emerged when I found myself drifting repeatedly toward changes in my writing and blogging habits this week. Twice this week, for example, I challenged myself to change where I wrote. This got me thinking: what if I dedicated an entire week to writing in a different spot every day?

I’m still working on the idea of weekly themes, but that’s the beauty of the NAC: the very nature of the challenge encourages me to attempt new ways of doing things. I’ll let you know next week how this new approach goes.

In the meantime, here’s a rundown of my week:

Day 8:

I’m going  to be honest: I was supposed to go see Gene Espy speak, but I had an exhausting day on Friday and didn’t really feel like going out. Instead? I enjoyed a chill dinner with some family members and tried out a couple of new ice cream flavors (both from the Private Selection line at Kroger). The Chocolate Hazelnut Mascarpone was a little disappointing, but the English Toffee Caramel was absolutely to DIE for.

Day 9:

My roommates and I have a tradition where we gather all of our friends once a month for “brunch” (which gets quotes because, while the event begins with a classic brunch meal, it usually ends up lasting 12+ hours). Due to a number of circumstances, this was the first “brunch” of the year, and I invited a couple of new faces into the mix.  I love when traditions grow and evolve.

Day 10:

I tried out a new writing spot in my house. I normally default to sitting on my bed, but it’s far too easy to fall into an accidental nap when you’re already lounging on your comforter. To mix things up a little, I moved to the loveseat on our landing and tapped out a solid number of words in a couple of hours. After my experience at the library last week, I’m beginning to think that changing up where I write has a great effect on my focus and output.

Day 11:

I attempted a Daily Post writing challenge for the first time, and I’m really pleased with the results. I’ll definitely do more in the future (and I had so much fun that I’m going to check out some other blogging/writing challenges, too).

Day 12:

I converted one of my bookshelves into a standing desk. Standing desks are pretty trendy right now, and after hearing a few writers claim that standing has done wonders for their output and focus (as well as their general health), I decided to give it a try. The result? I really loved it. It will take some getting used to if I adopt this habit long-term, but I definitely felt more energized while I worked (and the danger of falling asleep dramatically decreased, haha). I cranked out a ton of words that night.

Yes, that's penguin wrapping paper on the left.

Yes, that’s penguin wrapping paper on the left.

The next step? The dream is to have an epic tread-desk like the one my writer-buddy Dawn Rae Miller built. In the meantime I plan to continue my efforts to mix up where and how I write, since it’s done wonders for my word count so far.

Day 13:

I created a new header for my blog! What do you guys think?

Day 14:

I dove headlong into a new book. This entailed 1) staying up about three hours past my usual bedtime, 2) alternating between fits of “This is EXACTLY the sort of book I must write!” and “OMG, there’s no way I’ll ever be able to write like this. Ever.” and 3) crying all the tears because, I swear, I think Juliet Marillier can see into my soul. It’s like she knows everything I love and fear and struggle with–sometimes the smallest, most inauspicious scene will stir some memory or old feelings in me and next thing I know there are tears running down my face. (The book, by the way, is Child of the Prophecy, the third installment in Marillier’s Sevenwaters novels.)

 

And there you have it: Week 2! What new adventures did you guys attempt this week?

OoooOOOooooh, Pretty!

27 Feb

I’ve decided to make a few changes around here. The first order of business? A new header!

img_3206.jpg

I love it. It’s so fun and doodle-y. I’m considering tackling a few additional aesthetic updates in the next few weeks, but the header was long overdue, so it seemed like a good place to start.

What do you guys think?

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